♂Innocent Bystander♀

No man is an island 

John Donn
No man is an island, 没有谁是一座孤岛
entire of itself; 可以自全
every man is a piece of the continent, 每个人都是陆地的一部分
a part of the main; 整体的一块
if a clod be washed away by the sea, 如果其中的任何一块土壤被海水冲刷
Europe is the less, 欧洲的版图将就此缩减
as well as if a promontory were, 如同海岬失掉一角
as well as if a manor of thy friend's or of thine own were: 如同你的朋友或者你的领地失去一块

any man's death diminishes me, 任何一个人的逝去都意味着我的失去
because I am involved in mankind, 因为我是人类的一员
and therefore, 因此
never send to know for whom the bell tolls; 请不要问丧钟为谁而鸣
it tolls for thee. 他就为你敲响

To love is to be mature, generous and benevolent.

You will understand that the one you loved may not

only belongs to you.

He may also belongs to his family, his parents and sisters,

his social circles, his buddies and colleagues,

his career, and he loved books and movies

the eventual aim of love

is to make you become a lady

who is gracious, sensible and considerate,

and have decent behavior.

And then you may earn the eternal love from your prince.